Sincere

Today I am annoyed, Because there are words that I do not like. But God allow the word to be spoken That means it's important to me maybe God is sending me a mirror because I might have been so
and it's time to repent and change.
There was another time I was upset because what happened was really annoying but the fact is that God allows too meaning I must be natural right? Maybe God is sending me a tester that makes me tougher and know myself as a human being who must receive, enjoy and be grateful.
There's someone I really do not like his  behavior is inappropriate, his words are not good, but in fact God allowed him to be present maybe  God is sending me sparring partner so I'll take another class.

And amazingly the university. Every time I'm finished with one thing I was given another new, more difficult class. Thanks again to the more fierce testers roller coaster really. We are annoyed, upset, angry, all because of what is said, done, and happens, not  in accordance with our wishes. we do not want to happen, but God let it happen known  better what is best, we or God? God is not it? Continue to be smarter than God so? Yes no
God most knows what is best we have to deal with. God also knows best how we should learn being  a creature of His love in His heaven.
So yes .. just enjoy it just follow God to present anyone, whatever
Whether it's a disaster or a gift all the same, all is a test
Trials to keep ducking, Always be His representative, loving all that He presents sometimes loving means limiting and leaving so that they no longer do the next tyrannical.

How stable

This clear tears when seeing a woman who is looking forward to face the challenges and tribulations of his life. When the morning he got up from his bed and put the kettle on for a sick husband on the bed. bathe her weary husband. without all the red tape treat her husband. how patient she is even often were scolded by her husband for a little mistake and pain. like a woman caring for her husband to take care of a child who was unable to do anything but speechless. 

sometimes dripping tears whatsoever she could not stand for archery deck but her husband said that he was still hard and abide by the will of her husband. yes indeed all human hearts and feelings, but she was still aware that the responsibility of a wife was very important. she treats her husband from morning to night without stopping. sometimes falls asleep exhausted on the couch for deck entertain her husband. 

not want to point fingers at her husband, but I try to understand the pain that hit her husband. let's look at the story of men. The man did nyo ot want to harm anyone but sadly it was only able to force her to lie motionless on the bed only for the pain that hit the deck. I know how depressed because the man had to pester his wife and his children. no longer able to find sustenance for food for the family. I know how boring his life for terlantang in bed and can not move anywhere. boredom and stress this is that makes men lost their way and can not control his anger. hence the target or place for spraying.

Ihtihram

Ihtihram is very important in our life, Ihtiram means mutual respect or mutual respect to humanity. Mutual respect value is an attitude that every Muslim should possess as a form of Akhlaqul mahmudah.

Islam emphasizes the two dimensions of values ​​that must always be realized, namely the laudable akhlaq and 'aqidah or true faith, both must be in line. The right Aqeedah will bring good morality. A good Akhlaq must be rooted in the true aqidah.

One of the traits that must be manifested in everyday life is mutual respect to fellow human beings by being polite, tawadhu, tasamuh, muru'ah (keeping self-esteem), forgiving, keeping promises, apply 'fair and so on. Notice the words of the Messenger of Allah:

"Verily I am sent to complete the glorious morality" (Narrated by Ahmad and Baihaqi)

In daily life we ​​are required to reveal the superior morality in speech and behavior and even a requirement of perfection faith of a believer, the Prophet said:

"The most perfect believers of faith are those who are the best of morals. And the best of you are the best to his wife. "(Tirmidhi).

Clever people say: "Al-Islam mahjubun bil muslimin" means that Islam is protected by (behavior) of the Muslims.

Many Muslims are less attentive to their behavior, especially in respecting mutual respect to their neighbors, resulting in an impression of the good image of Islam as if Islam does not govern manners.

Price appreciate amid social life, every Muslim has a moral responsibility to defend and realize a good image of Islam by revealing speech, attitude and behavior, how to dress, how to get along, better than anyone else.

Therefore we as Muslims and the next generation of the nation have deservedly named the nature early on.

how to learn? from mistake by Diana Launfenberg

Diana Laufenberg is a teacher who shares a few things she’s learned about how most school’s teach and how most children learn. In the 1930’s, when Diana’s grandmother was in grade school, the purpose of going to class was to get information.  Students got all of their information from teachers and stored it all in their brains. When Diana was in school, information became more readily accessible in the form of encyclopedia’s and textbooks.

At the same time the internet became popular, she started teaching in Kansas. After the first year of teaching, she decided she needed to change her approach to teaching. Instead of she posed a challenge to her students: put on an election for your own community. They took ownership of the challenge, exceeded all expectations, and were able to learn while they created something useful and impactful. As her career progressed she was also witness to how meaningful and authentic students were when they were given a chance to speak freely. The final point she makes is about the culture of failure that exists in school. Students are taught that there is one right answer, a way of thinking abetted by the multiple choice tests at the front of academic assessment. Diana says it doesn’t make sense to tell kids to never be wrong when so much can be learned from failure. Kids need to be allowed to fail, process, and learn from their experiences in school.

Diana wants people to let go of the paradigms of the past. Information is no longer scarce and we should realize that education is not about coming to school to learn facts. It is about the student voice, experiential learning, and embracing failure.

As muslim

Islam and the World of Youth. What is the relationship between Islam and the world of teenagers? Is there a relationship huh? Before we discuss it, how are teenagers in the eyes of Islam and Islam in the eyes of the teenagers themselves?

 Teenagers in the eyes of Islam is like a milestone of success, this is because teenagers are the next generation of Islam. If the generation of adolescents is good and can practice Islam well, then Islam will also be more resilient. But if his teenagers have violated the rules that have been approved by Islam, and morals have been damaged, then Islam will also be easy to collapse and have no strength. Islam in the eyes of teenagers should be a role model and guidance in life, because if adolescents run the Shari'ah of Islam with as it should, then came the younger generation of successive Islamic struggle and God willing permitted by God.

Islam and the world of teenagers have a very close relationship. Islam has regulated all behavior, social ethics, dress ethics, and teenage ethics in the Qur'an and Sunnah of the Prophet. But in this age we meet many adolescents who experience a moral crisis. Muslim but his morality does not reflect Islam at all, Na'udzubillah. They claim Islam, even ID cards are also Islam but berartal, criminal, gambling, promiscuity, and so forth. Therefore, Islam regulate the life of adolescents so as not to fall into disobedience.

Be proud to be teenagers of Islam do not even be inferior with our own religion, or even afraid of being spelled out not slang and not modern. It was a very big mistake. Come on, we're self-interpection, self-evaluation, and of course soon realized if we've gone wrong. Turning back to an emancipated Islam. Do not let you confess Muslims but many of the teachings of Islam you do not even lakuin. Confess Muslims but you even feel inferior with your Muslim status. We can really become a teenager who slang but still syar'i. Teenage slang that does not mean teens whose hair was left wedged pigtail random mess, clothes odd, crashing colors and materials, then not again stereotyped Western lifestyle very freely without rules, slang also not also be measured in terms of appearance, because the Prophet himself taught us to live simply, but Islamic youth slang it is teenagers who can be successful afterlife. Pleased if the world is successful, and hereafter success. Although still teenagers we should be able to maintain our behavior and avoid actions that can plunge into disobedience and many closer to God.

Keep taqwa after ramadhan

Allah Ta'ala says (which means), "O you who believe, fear Allah in truth to fear Him; And let not you die but in a state of Islam. "(Surah Ali Imran [3]: 102)

The meaning of this verse, according to Ibn Mas'ud 'may Allaah' anhu, "Allah is obeyed, not maksiaksi; God is always remembered, not forgotten; God's favor is grateful, not dikufuri. "(Tafsir al-Qur'an al-'Azhim, 2: 388-389)

That is, if during Ramadan we always feel close to Allah Ta'ala because we are densely worship: obligatory prayer, shaum, taraweh prayer, recitations of the Quran and other good deeds, then after Ramadan, we must be closer to Allah Ta'ala . The more piety. Weight is, but we must live.

We need to be alert after this Ramadan. The point is still intent for the good for our fasting fruits bear fruit. Based on the information I got on the website rumaysho.com quoting the opinion of salaf scholars, "Who fasted in the month of Ramadan and plucked in his heart, later bakda Ramadan after no fast again, he was determined not to berpaksiat on God, then he will go to heaven without Problem, without being reckoned. But who fasts in the month of Ramadan and he plays in his heart bakda Ramadan after not fasting again, he will berpaksiat on God, then the fasting is rejected. "(Lathaif Al-Ma'arif, p 390)

It's really delicious if our fasting imprints on our behavior. Imprint in our worship, imprint in the practice of the Shariah of Allah and His Messenger. Inshallah we become true champion after Idul Fihtri, more piety after Ramadan. It means that Ramadan really has become a place of forging to train our patience, our gratitude, our faith, and the belief in Allah's forgiveness if we will repent for all sins.

During this Ramadan we are accustomed to living regularly and have a high enough fear to Allah Ta'ala We are willing to restrain not to eat and drink in the daytime simply because we are obedient to Allah Ta'ala and keep our fast to not cancel. How we willingly desperately istiqomah in carrying out this command of God. Masha Allah.

Day and night so vigorously worship as if tomorrow death pick us up. Splendor of taraweh prayers in congregation provides a high atmosphere of togetherness, recitations of the Quran echoed great from our mouths. Juz for the sake of our juz pass through with passion and sincerity so that when Ramadan is over, al-Quran khatam read. May our deeds be accepted by Allah Ta'ala. Work hard to worship day and night may increase the value of our piety in the days to his place. Do not let our worship is diligent and obedient to run the command of Allah Ta'ala only occurs in the month of Ramadan alone.

That is why, so we can still run worship outside of Ramadan and the stronger our piety, it would not hurt us to create the same atmosphere with Ramadan. So that we always feel close to Allah Ta'ala and avoid from sin. You've heard of Opick's song titled Tombo Ati? The contents must be we know by heart, there are five heart medicine things. First, reading the Qur'an (pervading the meaning to enlighten reason and soul). Second, night prayer (in order to achieve the discipline of righteous people). Third, hang out with the righteous (to get knowledge and advice). Fourth, shiyam, ie fasting (so our hunger bear fruit conscious). Fifth, dizkir night (get used to dhikr at night when many humans sleep in sleep).

Well, hopefully this can make us always cultivate piety even though Ramadan has passed us. That is, there is a result so, you know. Shaum Ramadan fruition, not just get hungry and thirsty.

There is a good qudsiy hadith to motivate us to be always close to Allah Ta'ala to attain the piety to Him: "If a slave come near to me in an inch, I will approach him a cubit; If he approached me a cubit, I would approach him as soon as possible; If he comes to me by walking, I will approach him by running "(Sahih Bukhari, XI / 199)

Yuk keep fighting because our struggle will continue for the life still contained body (especially struggle against lust to not do immoral and struggle to love worship). So, multiply worship, obedience to Allah in the implementation of the Shari'a, enterprising preaching and of course willing to sacrifice for the struggle of da'wah and uphold Islam on this earth. Keep the spirit and istiqomah!

Keep istiqomah

Friend of the struggle in resisting the temptation of the passions of doing immoral acts and strive hard to love worship is not a mild struggle. Weight. It even feels heavier for most of the Muslims. That is why, it needs strong belief in Allah's help and constantly draws closer to Him to expect His mercy and forgiveness.

Oya, as Muslims of course our obligations are many. That is why, it takes a istiqomah attitude to carry out the many obligations that Allah has imposed on us. Of course, in order for us to be enthusiastic and consistent in carrying out our obligations. Just to know aja yes, istiqomah it means continue commitment to the truth of Islam and continue to worship. Weight? Of course.

Oya, in addition to the weight to possess, istiqomah attitude makes a Muslim viewed by other Muslims as someone who is worthy of admiration. Ibn Mubarok recounts from Bakkar bin 'Abdillah, he said that he heard Wahb bin Munabbih say, there is an expert passing before the other worshipers. He replied, "I am so amazed at the fulan, he is so diligent in worship that he leaves his world." Wahb bin Munabbih immediately said, "No need to be amazed at the person who left the world like that. Indeed I am more amazed at those who can istiqomah. "(Hilyatul Auliya ', 4: 51)

The reward for the istiqomah is also great, my friend. Allah Ta'ala promises heaven. As his word (which means), "Verily those who say: Our Lord is God" then they confirm their stance, then the angels will come down to them by saying: "Do not be afraid and do not be sad; And delight them with the jannah that God has promised you. "(QS Fushshilat [41]: 30)