Tolerance

In Indonesia we know tolerance. Rarely sound tolerance. In fact, the English word toleration and to tolerate are usually translated respectively tolerant and tolerant. This is not so precise. There is quite an important difference between the two.

The meaning of tolerance can be understood from the two elements it contains. First, there is a thing or action that is not approved. Second, the attitude of allowing things or actions that are not approved it. A person is said to be correlated if when he is dealing with, for example, opinions, religious teachings, or different habits, he does nothing to eliminate, ban, or annoy him.

If he only allows the thing or action he approves, his name is not tolerated. And if he beats or throws stones at people or possessions of people who have or do something they oppose, that is clearly not toleration. Tolerance, tolerance, contains a third element: the will of the heart to tolerate and the ability to realize that will. This third element is important because it reflects the world view, the point of view, or the ideal life attitude that is in accordance with the plurality of society, culture, religion, race, ideology, etc. on the earth today.

Toleration can occur without tolerance. For example, in the New Order era, there was a lot of tolerance. However, it happens mainly because of two things. First, the state imposed it. People do not interfere with other people who do not agree or live differently for fear that the state will catch them. Secondly, the state is covering up and banning every word and action that is supposed to trigger antitolation. People do not know and, therefore, do not think about it.

Now the Indonesian state no longer frighten the people. However, when antiterolation violence has occurred lately, many state officials are still trying to hide their heads in the sand by repeating the "It's pure criminal" mantra instead of trying to build a tolerant attitude with real, open, intelligent, And wise. Tolerance is often equated with grace. However, this is not appropriate because elements of grace mean are opposite to tolerance. Just like tolerance, grace contains elements of things or actions that are not approved. However, grace is not the attitude of willingness to bear the difference, but rather forcing the unapproved is removed, replaced with the approved. And the will of the heart is not so that everyone can live peacefully in a different way, but to force others to live in the same way.

Tolerance is a humble being: others are just as good as mine. Grace is a form of high-heartedness: everyone has to come with me the best and the perfect one. Tolerance is roomy and loving. Grace is petty and hateful. Others do not. 

Riya'

Basically, the act of riya 'that is based on his intention in doing the deed worship that is addressed to other than Allah SWT. Because of intentions, others will not know that what it does is its purpose is to be praised. Therefore, it's good to recognize some things that mostly thought riya 'and shirk, but not. Riya 'is now so rampant. Although each person has a different level, the goal is to get the human praise and not be sincere. Riya 'is dangerous because it is one of the diseases of the heart that makes a person in the class of hypocrites.
Riya 'can happen to anyone even including the believer who is pious and shalehah though. In a hadith from Abu Hurairah RA, and narrated by Imam Muslim, Rasulullah SAW reported that the first group to be martyred was martyred, studying and teaching science, and giving charity.
Allah will throw all three into the fire of hell because the deeds of worship they do not with the intention to Allah SWT. Word of Allah SWT which means;
"And when they (the hypocrites) stand in prayer, they stand in laziness and riya 'before men and they do not remember Allah except very little." (Q. S. An Nisa verse 142).

Sincerely solve the problem!

Be patient is a word we often hear and say. The word is so light and easy to call and feels good at hearing. However, it is quite difficult to make it happen. The whole point is to do good deeds for God alone. One hundred percent for God, LILLAAH, not ninety-nine point nine percent. Really one hundred percent for God, pure for God and for God without any other. Not contaminated by other intentions even if only zero point one percent or less. Oh how hard.
We will never know the degree of sincerity of ourselves, how can we judge the sincerity of others?
No one knows about the sincerity of others because of his place in the heart and no one knows it except God.
We are commanded to improve ourselves and our intentions and not to discuss the intentions and hearts of others. The person who claims to have committed sincerity means he is not sincere and his sincerity needs to be explained again. Charity which is not based on sincerity or being sincere but contaminated by other intentions is a vain charity by Allah and does not mean the slightest, even the perpetrators will get punishment from it. Oh how harmful.
The one who has spent his wealth, energy, thoughts, time and others will be useless if not pure sincerity, even he will get punishment and regret.
Among the terms of the receipt of the charity is sincere. The lesson about sincerity and intention is a mandatory lesson. May we all know it and be able to realize it in truth so that our charity is accepted by God and not in vain, aamiin.

What's the point of being arrogant?

Many are anxious because worry, worried, anxious. The past comes to mind and continues to create feelings of annoyance, resentment, anger. "If only first .." "He should .." "Why me?", annoyed, angry, do not want to accept. The future is also thoughtfully worried as if our mind can change something

"If this is how ... then what is my fate?" Dizzy, uneasy resent.

Yet all from God and all return to God, Innalillahi wa inna ilaihi rajiun. Which we can not change, which makes hurt forgive it. Do not hurts yourself by saving sad, angry, hurt.

Do not forgive the sign that we feel prestige saving the past unsuspecting signs we are not ridho Forgetting that His favor is more than His disaster That His love is greater than His test.

Too cocky to acknowledge His gift. Too cocky to accept all his provisions. Too proud to hold on to His promise. Too proud to want to pray and surrender to Him.

Be a human being in case of disaster, Say Inalillahi wa inna ilaihi rajiun all from God, all return to God. Why should you be upset and angry when everything comes from the Supreme Love?

All belongs to God, so return it if Allah wants to take it. All events are created by the Great,

No need to compare, let alone complain. Just be grateful for everything, for indeed all are gifts

Pray, ask for patience and gratitude because that takes also the is rich, the All-Good can give anything

Who wants to see our attitude and heart when the temptation is sent.

Give yourself completely to Him alone hold on to His promise, That every disaster is grateful will be rewarded with gifts that patience will be rewarded with reward without limits, endless.Why be arrogant to Him?

Sincere

Today I am annoyed, Because there are words that I do not like. But God allow the word to be spoken That means it's important to me maybe God is sending me a mirror because I might have been so
and it's time to repent and change.
There was another time I was upset because what happened was really annoying but the fact is that God allows too meaning I must be natural right? Maybe God is sending me a tester that makes me tougher and know myself as a human being who must receive, enjoy and be grateful.
There's someone I really do not like his  behavior is inappropriate, his words are not good, but in fact God allowed him to be present maybe  God is sending me sparring partner so I'll take another class.

And amazingly the university. Every time I'm finished with one thing I was given another new, more difficult class. Thanks again to the more fierce testers roller coaster really. We are annoyed, upset, angry, all because of what is said, done, and happens, not  in accordance with our wishes. we do not want to happen, but God let it happen known  better what is best, we or God? God is not it? Continue to be smarter than God so? Yes no
God most knows what is best we have to deal with. God also knows best how we should learn being  a creature of His love in His heaven.
So yes .. just enjoy it just follow God to present anyone, whatever
Whether it's a disaster or a gift all the same, all is a test
Trials to keep ducking, Always be His representative, loving all that He presents sometimes loving means limiting and leaving so that they no longer do the next tyrannical.

How stable

This clear tears when seeing a woman who is looking forward to face the challenges and tribulations of his life. When the morning he got up from his bed and put the kettle on for a sick husband on the bed. bathe her weary husband. without all the red tape treat her husband. how patient she is even often were scolded by her husband for a little mistake and pain. like a woman caring for her husband to take care of a child who was unable to do anything but speechless. 

sometimes dripping tears whatsoever she could not stand for archery deck but her husband said that he was still hard and abide by the will of her husband. yes indeed all human hearts and feelings, but she was still aware that the responsibility of a wife was very important. she treats her husband from morning to night without stopping. sometimes falls asleep exhausted on the couch for deck entertain her husband. 

not want to point fingers at her husband, but I try to understand the pain that hit her husband. let's look at the story of men. The man did nyo ot want to harm anyone but sadly it was only able to force her to lie motionless on the bed only for the pain that hit the deck. I know how depressed because the man had to pester his wife and his children. no longer able to find sustenance for food for the family. I know how boring his life for terlantang in bed and can not move anywhere. boredom and stress this is that makes men lost their way and can not control his anger. hence the target or place for spraying.

Ihtihram

Ihtihram is very important in our life, Ihtiram means mutual respect or mutual respect to humanity. Mutual respect value is an attitude that every Muslim should possess as a form of Akhlaqul mahmudah.

Islam emphasizes the two dimensions of values ​​that must always be realized, namely the laudable akhlaq and 'aqidah or true faith, both must be in line. The right Aqeedah will bring good morality. A good Akhlaq must be rooted in the true aqidah.

One of the traits that must be manifested in everyday life is mutual respect to fellow human beings by being polite, tawadhu, tasamuh, muru'ah (keeping self-esteem), forgiving, keeping promises, apply 'fair and so on. Notice the words of the Messenger of Allah:

"Verily I am sent to complete the glorious morality" (Narrated by Ahmad and Baihaqi)

In daily life we ​​are required to reveal the superior morality in speech and behavior and even a requirement of perfection faith of a believer, the Prophet said:

"The most perfect believers of faith are those who are the best of morals. And the best of you are the best to his wife. "(Tirmidhi).

Clever people say: "Al-Islam mahjubun bil muslimin" means that Islam is protected by (behavior) of the Muslims.

Many Muslims are less attentive to their behavior, especially in respecting mutual respect to their neighbors, resulting in an impression of the good image of Islam as if Islam does not govern manners.

Price appreciate amid social life, every Muslim has a moral responsibility to defend and realize a good image of Islam by revealing speech, attitude and behavior, how to dress, how to get along, better than anyone else.

Therefore we as Muslims and the next generation of the nation have deservedly named the nature early on.